>>18455Read what I wrote again. I made no claims about romatic or sexual relationships, my focus was much higher than these pleasant but ephemeral ordeals (friendship and agape love were what I was focusing on). Relationships on earth are stained by sin, they’ll be imperfect, but those glimmers of light are the beauty God made in this world to enjoy and experience. I was and am saying that it’s natural to feel hurt by bad experiences, but that cutting off a part of yourself isn’t the answer. Healing takes time but it’s well worth it to heal and live well than to allow your past to own you. You will be glad for the memories you’d made. That’s all there is to what I’m saying:
I want you to know you can heal, that you can grow, and that you will transform like a butterfly
I want you to know that you don’t have to be alone, that you won’t be alone, and that you are not alone.
I wish and pray for God to give you and everyone I meet rich lives overflowing in blessings. That is what a blessing is. The fact that evil exists in this world or that things are imperfect does not discount the intent behind my blessings. There are lots of uncomfy things happening in the world I have no control over, neither do you. Why should that discount and silence goodwill where I can make a difference? Am I not allowed to give blessings, charity, and thanks because someone somewhere else is suffering worse than the person I’m addressing?
Let’s keep things comfy. I’ve been through similar situations and I’m still working through it, but I know there’s better if you allow yourself to try. God bless you.