/lounge/ - sushi social

>>13137
i think being ghosted on a dating app by someone you've only known for days is different to being ghosted by your friend that you've known for months or years.

I've ghosted. I did love her to bits. We were friends of 15 years, she came out, in spite of both of us having stable relationships.

She basically said "I love you, but my family shouldn't know". I didn't say no..
Fast forwards a year; she basically fucks everything that moves in Second Life. I redo an account, she doesn't stop, but assures me she does. She wants us to live together. I'm worried..

Fast forwards one year. Her husband discovered. I did ghost her for short sessions, tied to her SL sexplay. Jealous, or sad.. How could I have confidence anymore.

Fast forwards a few months. Her Husband threatens the kids. Her kids insult her in public, with the support of the father, in front of her family. She gets smashed. My wife steps in, we nearly break. She tries to help her leave her abusive hubby (that she still fucks on a daily basis).

FF another few months.. Hubby gets me spied by a private (???). She cries all the time. My wife and I try to focus. Wife is preggo, why not? After all she kept fucking her hubby.

FF other months. Wife has miscarriage, I develop some deep disease. I ghost friend for good, since the miscarriage came out as a shock to her (yea I still fuck irl, and in SL we barely talk now).

FF a few years, friend is still with her husband. We'll never talk again, I'll always avoid her RL from now on - a lost friend. In Second Life she sends her friends to suggest me to commit suicide.

Yes, when it gets you scared, crazy, worried, or has a massive impact on your RL.. Just ghost. Go away. Survive. Fuck them.

>>13168
Your wife was pregnant and you were cheating with some random on Second Life? You should have cut that off long before you felt "scared" or it bled into your real life. Sad as fuck.

>>10030
There's usually a reason why it happens even if you don't find out. One of the reasons I quit hanging out with my friend is disillusionment with that person. I saw them taking advantage of people and I decided I couldn't trust them anymore.

>>13168
>>13169
It's somewhat jarring to me as to how second life drama can be so serious.

>or has a massive impact on your RL
Generally when I ghost or have been ghosted it's to people I only know irl..

>>9804
My friends and I used to beat each other with sticks when we were kids. Good, clean fun.

>>9802
Sounds like a complicated setting just to have maids do bicycle-archery.

Street Fighting?

I skateboarded from childhood to around age 18. Sometimes over the past years, if the opportunity presents itself, I'll step on a board for a few minutes. Usually just until I can land a kickflip again and go "yep still got it."

I've been considering getting back into it for the cardio, but I'm currently not allowed to engage in activities that run the risk of breaking my bones due to some medicine I had to be on.


>>9804
When I was a teenager, sometimes my friends and I would "skater joust" except instead of riding toward each other with a jousting rod, we'd just skate next to each other and punch or throw things at one another. Very stupid, very violent, very much influenced by watching too much Jackass. Fortunately, none of us were ever seriously injured.

Recently taken up skateboarding a bit since I have some friends who used to be into it at various times and it's sort of what we do when we hang out now.

I'm still shit and I don't think I'll ever get much better since I'm generally uncoordinated at the best of times, but it's really fun. At least I can do down ramps and turn without destroying myself!

>>12961
我一直想学别语言。我学了一下日本语，一下些个别语言。现在我只学中文。我还喜欢都语言，可是没有多时间。为什么我挑中文? 我认为它很奇怪和漂亮。中国的历史有我的兴趣。
我想一下看三体。我也喜欢非人哉的电视。
对不起，我没有多学习写我的觉得的，所以我想我的中文写的特别差。

Do cosplay
instagram@next_jen_cosplay/

>>11725
i have interactions with people irl that remind me of my own importance

>>11725
>How do you stay motivated?
Keep your physical activity up.

>>11725
Create good daily habits

>>10317
Chinese New Year of the Ox time?

Still a chance for this year to be better…

Happy new year 2022!

Nice, I was almost sure there was a new Year's thread made last year but I couldn't find it anywhere. It's the second time I say it, but happy new Year.

TIGER ROAR

it doesn't even snow here

It snowed here so much last year that it was unreal. The amount of snow, in all the years I've lived here, has never reached more than some light sleet that could barely be considered "snowing". I wonder if it will this year, as well. There's been no sign of that yet, though.

>>13054
You don't want too much snow…

>>13085

Oh no, of course not. I didn't mean to make that photo picrel. It's just a snowy village in Japan I thought of.

I'm originally from a country that gets too much snow. It gets so cold that the streets tend to freeze over. I once slipped on them and sprained my left arm so bad that it made me unable to use it for months. I certainly don't miss my hands going numb and completely red everytime I would go outside, either. Heh

the snow has been very plentiful here this week, but not overwhelming thankfully

it's just enough to make my manager close our store at 5pm instead of 8pm, so i get more time at home to unwind. especially helps since getting my days off around christmas required me to work essentially 10 days in a row before i get my proper weekend

Playing violent video-games helps me when I'm in a mood…

>>12682
The more violent, the better!

>>12712
Have blood splatter everywhere!

>>13007
Sometimes you just wanna break stuff

Moved to >>>/hell/3684.

>>10025
I can be your cute, petite, tomboyish gf (boy) for christmas, if you want…

>>10025
I wished for the same. Didn't get it either.

>>10026
I'll be honest, I wish I was gay enough to consider your request.

I'm enjoying the time off work.

>>4893
I wanna go to Lapland, Finland…

Just sit back and enjoy Xmas!

I spent Thanksgiving alone drinking beer and playing video games. It was much better than usual.

>>4611
I also grew up nonreligious and the extent to which religious people think and talk about religion always boggles my mind, just since I hardly ever think about religion at all, and only in an anthropological sense if I do. Discussing theology and religious spirituality seems as normal as talking about yesterday's football game to them.

It's good you have stuff like programming to talk about. My main hobby is also my profession, and it's a landmine of a field that everybody has a political opinion on so all I can fall back on is stuff like video games and anime which doesn't do well with every crowd.

Also, what draws you to a church? I thought about trying one out just to see what it's like for a while but never went through with it.

Xmas Lockdown
Yeah…… not

>>9984
And a happy NYE'20

>>9781
>>9984
>>9995
Merry Xmas, yo!

>>4626
That's subjective.

>>4626
Yes, well that's a classic aphorism

"We're living in the best possible reality, says the optimist
The pessimist fears that this may be true"

>>12479
You're living now. Do it or make do.

>>12923
Vampire Red Wedding

>>4978
>You have to take the good with the bad
>The full eradication of the entire world is impossible with pre-agrarian technology. If you really find The Bomb terrifying the inevitable end conclusion you will come to is that technology has been misused by powerful people for the entire history of humanity.
Knowledge is a deadly friend when no one makes the rules
The fate of all mankind it seems is in the hands of fools

I came to the realisation that my mental health influences what I consume to jack off.
If it is in a good condition I use vanilla or don't even touch myself, if it is in a bad condition I use disgusting and disturbing stuff.

>After 10 or so years of my right jaw clicking when opening and closing, I got a sudden pain and now my jaw doesn't click anymore. Thing is, I can only open my mouth about half of what I used to be able to.

I found myself in the same situation a couple of weeks ago, my solution was trying to force it to open a couple of times a day for a couple of days, it opening all the way now but i feel like my jaw is in the wrong place,oh well, at least i didnt have to go to a doctor.

Been feeling a bit down lately, the few friends i have are going out and having fun without me, they arent even talking to me, i dont have the willpower to do something productive, been just watching movies all alone in my room all day.

My throat has been itching and I've felt a sickness coming on since yesterday. My stepdad got sick so he must have infected me and my mom. Hopefully not with what I think it is.

>>13055
Hope it's nothing serious

On the constructive side, how do I cut someone I share a class with off? I can't say "fuck off" because we have the same class and some friend overlap, so it'll make things weird. I also need constant ghosting excuses because he can just ask me in class. Also want to hang with his friends without him. Also I'm a woman too, also one weaker than him, so cutting him off has a small chance of it ending with violence against me. I need something that wont put me on his shit list
On the vent side my "friend", well he's to much of a dick to be friend now, is doing things that makes him a creep to woman. Every time I mention a female friend he says "ArE tHEy LoOkiNG fOr A rELaTiOnShIp" and wont listen when I say how I don't like him asking that. He says he wont hit on woman friends I bring to hang, but you can tell he wants to. He told a girl they only like their bf because he's white then said it's doomed to fail because it's interracial. He called another woman a whore for engaging in pre marital sex. He's put a girlfriend in an awkward confession situation. He's also asked me and my friends multiple times if I know any woman looking for hook ups and one nightstands which got the same "I'm uncomfortable now" vibes, which he ignored and said "it's a joke". He wasn't this aggressive when I first met him, so thats why he became friends. He's become aggressive now though. I'm warning girls I know before I hang with him and I understand that's not normal. I'm cutting him off right now and I deeply regret entertaining him now.
The good thing is among my friends the weirdo is so hated if he dares make any woman uncomfortable he has a few dudes ready to beat his ass.