>>18459You know, I don't think "agape" and this more mystical and spiritual form of love is achieved by simply interacting with people. Historically the kind of people writing of experiences of "agape" and such mysticism were actually quite withdrawn from typical human relationships…
You're clearly putting just mingling with people and being social (in a conventional sense) on a pedestal by equating having friends and relationships with some spiritual experience. Admittedly great friendship can feel otherworldly, I'm sure we've all experienced it, but, realistically, chasing that feeling can only lead to disappointment. If such a thing comes to you, and you're open to it, sure you can have your "glimmer of light" but recognize it most likely came to you by chance, not some act of will and "self transformation".
I think I'm keeping things comfy. Throwing out lines like "An unexamined life is not worth living, an isolated life is not worth having. Don't let the past dominate your present! Future you will thank present you, so start growing, start transforming, and live the rich life God intended for you!" IS uncomfy however. You are making people who are perhaps incapable of helping themselves fall into FOMO.