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 No.15601[Reply]

Spring has sprung, the plants are turning green, the early wildflowers are blooming. It's getting warm, but not too hot. This is my favorite time of the year.

Do you like spring?

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I really love spring, so full of opportunity.
Pic related, this is spring for me.

 No.15603

I do like spring! But it's short where I live.

I love the OP image. Zundamon and yotsuba to type beat

 No.15610

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Still cold, man. Time for the country to warm up.

 No.15619

It's been raining here often and I love it. Especially nice cold breeze on my cheeks when I take my evening walk.

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>>15619
Rain make me cold and wanting hot soup.



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 No.13746[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

is there a "ask the opposite gender stuff" thread? i have a question :(
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 No.15534

>>15531
you're not a bad person and I think what you're feeling is probably normal/natural. As long as you recognize that you don't actually want to act on those feelings irl and it's just your lizard brain talking. You should probably try talking to a therapist if you can find a good one, because sadly people (people in this thread, even) will moralfag at you about this kind of thing

 No.15535

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>>15534
it's just perspective really (rant about men and lewdity in spoilers)
my libido is a bit ruined due to traumatic experiences. I never really had any romance thingy with anyone except some years ago with a person from the internet. I can only imagine doing the thingies men do when in a heat with her, but anytime I try it with something or someone else, I just drink alcohol instead. And go back to cranking it to this person instead, makes me feel a bit sad really
And it's not because "i can't get someone", shit i'm just in limbo of wanting to meet someone but being completely angry about men and people in general
it really fucking sickens me when men can't keep their brains in their head instead of below their gut and above their legs, so I guess men in general just make me sick
god i hate men
/rant

 No.15536

>>15531
See a therapist. If you care about your partner and keeping this relationship, and love her, wouldn't you want to find ways to deal with this? What you're describing would drive me insane and would make me feel absolutely awful. As it stands now you're not a bad person for having sexual thoughts towards other people, but how you deal with it will determine whether you're good or bad in most people's eyes.

Also, have you talked to your wife about the sex thing? I've heard "virtually no sex in marriage" is far from a universal truth and can be 'solved' (if it's a problem for you). If you communicate your lack of sexual fulfillment to your partner maybe you'll find some common ground?

The thing that bothers me about your post is the undercurrent of contradictory statements. You say you're satisfied with your relationship and your sex drive is low, yet you spend time watching TikToks of girls dancing and are fantasizing about a girl you know. You are clearly describing sexual impulses. The way you describe the girls on TikTok as a girl "like that" and then throw your wife under the bus honestly made me sad. It's not the vacant thoughts that make me doubt your intentions at all. It's the way you say your thoughts are nothing but instinct, that there's nothing cognizant about them, and yet your inability to get with the girl at the store is a "source of much frustration" and that girls on TikTok are a source of much jealousy. And that you don't find your wife physically comparable to them.

TALK TO YOUR WIFE. Don't tell her about these thoughts you've been having but TELL HER that you're satisfied in life and proud of what you're building together. Tell her you're unfulfilled and that you want to have sex!! Fix your shit.

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>>15531
1. Enjoy making love to your now aging wife. That's a part of your marriage contract.
2. Don't actively lust over girls who are not your wife. That's a part of your marriage contract as well. If you take your time to enjoy the assets, then maybe the pain of fulfilling your liabilities will become less severe. Besides, if you 100% believe in the Bible, there is a this sin called adultery which pretty much describes your case.
3. Ever tried sharing your worries with your wife? How come you married a person whom you can't trust and who won't alleviate your suffering? Yes, a good wife may be very hard to find, but otherwise, why even marry when you're that old? Other than to have kids and to not die alone and forgotten.
4. Are your mother and father still alive? Do you have an uncle or maybe an auntie? Maybe you want to ask them what their experience was.

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>>15531
Your feelings don't make you a bad person, but they can lead you to do bad things that you would otherwise never imagine yourself doing. Talking to a doctor can help. Human sexuality is weird and hard to figure out, so having a professional to guide you is a great option. Please don't cheat on your wife, especially not with a minor.



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 No.5446[Reply]

Hey sushis, how the hell do I get off the computer?

I spend practically all day browsing various boards and forums and doing nothing of value. I have a couple non-computer-based hobbies but barely any motivation. I've tried to make my computer time more productive (studying languages, programming, even just watching stuff or playing games) but I can never stick with it because to be honestly I hate the computer and everything to do with it.

I'm at the point where you could call me internet addicted, but it's mostly because I feel like I have nothing else to do. I could stop using the computer, but I have no idea how I'd fill my time. I guess I'd stare at the wall? My social life isn't too vibrant either and that doesn't help.

Has anyone else been here / does anyone have some ideas?
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>>5446
Just Do It
That path leads to victory

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>>5446
I had the same problem. Took up chinese cooking with a wok and it seems to work for me

 No.15446

>>13148
1) you're supposed to put an actual email in the email box, not just the word "sage"
2) don't be a dick

 No.15447

>>15446
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 No.15464

>>15446
Leave while you still can!!



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 No.11725[Reply]

How do you stay motivated? I feel like I have such high aspirations but never the motivation to put the effort in to anything. Everything takes time, and the only thing I put time in to is my career, which ends up feeling self defeating. I have the funds to do anything I want and I end up doing the same thing over and over to ease my anxiety.

I guess my question boils down to "Those who found something to pour their soul into, how did you manage to focus on that above all else?"

Thanks for the input friends!
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>>13127
Just do it

 No.15253

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>>11725
I think that the first thing you need to do is getting used to doing the thing you want to do. Even if you're struggling to focus, force yourself to do it for a while and you will see some results. It doesn't necessarily have to be a routine, just make sure that you're doing it. Also, if it's something you can do without being on the computer, try doing it away from any digital device you own. Having no distractions really helps with concentration.

 No.15255

I use my self doubt to motivate myself. Pair that with caffeine, and I got myself a somewhat productive day. It also comes down to your beliefs too. If your personal beliefs dictate you to study or do something, then you'll do it. Otherwise, if you feel enough shame, you'll hopefully force yourself to do it.

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>>15255
Good on you, dude.

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>>11725
Never give up



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 No.15265[Reply]

What are your thoughts on deep faked porn. It's driving me crazy how many folks are being Boomers and freaking out about the new tech. They're calling it a violation of their favorite streamers' dignity even if you would never meet that streamer.

Personally, I think we'll get used to having fake porn of everyone on the internet. It'll be like old porn stars never retired and you can make up pure fantasy about anyone the married woman you saw at a coffee shop.
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 No.15380

>>15378
we've evolved, sushi

 No.15381

I think it's fine. It isn't real after all.

 No.15382

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>>15354
Oh, sushi roll. Sometimes so hated and sometimes so deeply beloved. I usually do not post anything here, and that makes me more of an alien to this place, so you don't have to take my opinion too close to your heart: my stances aren't that strong, except those that I have about the relationship between children and adults. These were strong when I was 8, when I was 14, when I was 18, and so they most likely will be until I die.

Besides, I also wanted to make the following point. While we, of course, can upkeep the *traditions of old*, the advent of new technology won't stop, and so won't the change it brings to humanity. The humanity has changed already, although I'd have a trouble describing in what way exactly it did so. Once upon a time, people wouldn't stare at their phones during a holiday dinner and would talk to each other, bringing in many guests, and many still do. Once upon a time, there wasn't an issue with porn because there were no cameras to catch and keep a detailed image of a person, and porn simply didn't exist the way we know it. The perception of fake erotic photos being published somewhere as blasphemy upon one's dignity is one way how the *puritan romantic mind* of the *old culture* tries to make sense of this brave new world that we're treading into. And it's poorly suited for processing that.

Although, you could probably make the case that humans always disliked evil caricatures and gossips of them as well as name-calling and exposure of their secrets, and that things are still going the usual way because fake lewds are simply a new annoying part of this list of things that, although their contents are not necessarily real, sometimes really make people feel terrible.

>>15361
There is the classic problem of freedom for something versus freedom from something. Some people will do whatever, and when confronted, they say that they don't owe anybody anything, they say that if you don't like something, you could just go away or grit your teeth, and it's totally your fault if you can't or don't. Some people demand that every moral actor in the world be mindful of them, the whole set of their wants and opinions and what they might feel at each step, or else. As for the solution, it depends.

Sex doesn't have to bPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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In other words, I'd hope that people would take it easier. Instead, some people make such a big deal off of anything lewd about them and the others, and I wish people would be able to experience petty lewd stuff like fake porn pictures in a simpler way that doesn't wrench anybody's heart and thus doesn't result in violation of either of the two freedoms.

I hope this is much clearer than what I wrote before.

 No.15395

Moved to >>>/hell/4310.



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 No.7927[Reply]

currently on a zoom call doing remote e-learning. it's really daunting but the nice weather outside makes it better. i'm just a little annoyed today haha
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 No.11541

>>10599
I love cheesecakes

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>>11540
Danke

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>>11594
very cute

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>>11596
espresso peps you up!

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 No.14158[Reply]

any tips on dealing with a breakup? i feel like it's the first time even when it isn't. we still adore each other and i think it's just factors out of our control.
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>>15305
Nope. Some people never find anyone else and eventually die alone.

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>>15306
Really helpful

 No.15310

>>15306
Sushi, you can't let people tell you this and you cannot internalize this mindset if finding new love is something you want. There are no guarantees in life– for anything, but there will always be new experiences and there is joy in those things. If you treat yourself and others with care, other people will follow suit. I personally think you will be just fine.

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>>15310
Sorry if that came off as negative, but at some point you have to accept there's things you'll never reach no matter how far you extend your hand. That's not to say everything is pointless, just because you can't have everything doesn't mean you can't have something. But what people are capable of achieving varies. Just because something seems easily obtainable to you doesn't mean it's the same for everyone else.

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>>15324
I'd rather not live with a "Sunken Chest" philosophy, thanks.



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 No.15213[Reply]

What does sushi think of ASMR?
I find it helps me a lot going to bed and even after waking up. The former is great for insomnia, the second one is great to get out of bed. Makes me feel like a caring person can really fix things as long as it all works out.
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 No.15218

>>15215
i find the veiled sexuality/eroticism of stuff like this more gross than 'porn'.
porn is open and honest about what it is and what it's for, where stuff like this stuff is not. it's closeted. it lives in sfw spaces where you know people are jerkin' off to it. Which is part of the appeal i imagine.
not saying there is any issue with asmr being gross, porn is too, it all is–sex & gross go hand in hand~

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>>15218
It is a good coping mechanism. Some times I feel like there is no one for me, ASMR is a nice method to relieve stress and be at peace, even if it's all manufactured.
Yes there is people who may see it as erotic, but there is crazy things people find erotic on the internet, this isn't that bad really

 No.15221

asmr is peak comedy without even trying. i love me some fellatio asmr in the mornin and rage asmr before i sleep it is top funny

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 No.15304

When I think of "ASMR," I mostly think of recordings of things like mechanical keyboards clacking, or fountain pens writing. I do find these sounds to be rather soothing, but you folks seem to be talking about something very different. Either that, or there's a non-insignificant number of people who think that mechanical keyboard sounds are particularly sexual.



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 No.12769[Reply]

How many hours of day are you computer?
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 No.14857

Depends on the season. It's the wet season here, so not much to do outside, and I end up spending 4-6 hours a day on the computer. During the dry season, I go outside a lot more to take walks and go fishing, so I spend about 2 hours a day then.

 No.14908

Too long … I need to cut down.

 No.15234

all of them
i would cut down but i don't have much else to do

 No.15249

i stay on the computer about 4 or 5 hours a day just looking at websites and watching youtube videos.

 No.15287

>>15249
Do more work from within.



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 No.14404[Reply][Last 50 Posts]

Last thread hit bump limit so you know what that means! Talk about how your day is going, anything interesting that happened recently, what's on your or just to say hi!
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 No.15288

What's the bump limit in this site?

 No.15289

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The person that I love the most lurks this website but i don't know how to talk to that person without being a freak.
I thought I got over it, but it keeps popping up and I wish we could link up again.

 No.15299

When I was at home alone consuming youtube/anime/manga I just wanted to make friends. Now that I have friends at work all I want to do is be at home alone consuming youtube/anime/manga. Funny how life works

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My family are out for the week and the house is mine. I want to cross dress, wear a body suit all weak, and wear makeup and be kinky for a week for the first time, and I'm not sure what should I do now? I've never gone all the way and don't even know how to put on makeup.

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>>15309
Do as much as you can. Try to watch some makeup tutorials or invite a girl friend to help you out with the makeup and stuff!



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