/hell/ - internet death cult

>>1622
Your life serves as a good example to others. I might end up showing this post to a hikki I'm sweet on, so thanks for that.

I was a neet for 2/3 years.
What's awful about trying to un-neet is the gap in life. like you can't fool anyone, employers, co-workers etc their first question will be "so what have you been doing". It's not like they're testing you, they're actually interested. It's just unfortunate that their interest exposes our failures.

In my country you need 2 references when you apply for a job which is basically someone of professional career who says what you've done around them and why you're a good person. As you can imagine, this is about as close to a trap card as a neet can possibly ever find.

I got really luck with my first job and they never checked cause my box was empty :^). Then for my current job where they actually check (since its a good job this time) I was able to put my last job in and got special permission to only put one.

If your neet life is like 1 year you can explain that away pretty easily, 2-4 years you'll have to make something up about pursuing a personal interest or whatever and if it gets longer than that then I think you would just have to be honest and hope they're understanding.
References are a disastrous system for neets in that regard. Literally nothing else could be so easily damning.

But at the end of the day if you don't bite the bullet and suffer through pile of rejections until you find someone who will give you a shot then your future will be one of desolation.

If any neets in the making are reading this, just get a temp job with super short hours after education or whatever. Just something easy to say you were doing *something*.

Once you fall out of society it is incredibly difficult and painful to claw your way back in.

>>1624
Glad to help. I see too many people on imageboards despairing because "I'm 22 and never had a gf". Man, if only they knew how young they were.

>>1626
Yeah the references thing is terrible. When you eventually get lucky and land a job, it's critical to find 2 people at your job who will be your reference for later jobs. This falls under the whole social anxiety thing too. A lot of this problem stems from simply being afraid to confront a person and ask them a favour. When you practise socialising, you can overcome this, but it's certainly a long road to get to that point.

>>1373
I read the Hagakure, decided to live my life to the fullest, dress respectfully, moved to a totally new place, and decided to start talking to strangers respectfully IRL since its not like i have anything to loose.

Being a hikki was no fun, I actually lost my voice from not talking for months at a time.

>>3295
Gothic 3. I never expected to see somebody post that game on a imageboard. Did you play it?

>>3295
thank you for sharing sushi roll.

>>3296
I played it only upon release. And I never really got past the first couple of quests. My gothic 1+2 adventures were longer than that, maybe even I finished them at some point.

>>3297
You're welcome

>>3299
3 sucked on release and even after all the patches it received it is still way worse than 1 and 2. Those two are just lovely.
Anyway it made me happy to meet somebody else that knows those games, therefore dinner is on me!

oh b_tch is filtered

>>3274
this dragon is excessively cute

This dragon has broke the law, and as such it has to lose against it!

That's not real dragon, it's anime girl.

bonked

>>3125
Both seem very niche? We already took over all the uboa main page kek also the last admin post or whatever is from 2019
I'm hoping that the mod from lolcow on cc will make moves once cc admin locks the thread, that's probably our best shot

>>3126
both this place and uboa are run by the same person so it really just comes down to aesthetics at this point

Is anybody here from cc/lo/choa??

I'm from lc and cc

chaeyoung broke me

>>3259
your supposed attraction to men is just a random spike of uncertaity, further excacerbated by fear of having been gay all along.

how much do you dislike the proposition of being gay, sushiroll? your opposition towards homo-ing is just as legitimate of a feeling as you might be thinking of gayness, and it's been there longer than your thoughts of being gay that suddenly appeared one day.

also, watch the ingredients of the food you eat, soy gets into everything nowadays.

There've been a few times where I've been in basically the same situation: going a while without much face-to-face interaction with people, and I start to think that I might be bi because men seem attractive in fantasies, or in anime or books. But then every time that's happened, the next time I actually interact with another man in person I instantly "snap out of it" and start wondering why I ever thought I might be attracted to men. There's just something about in-person interaction that makes it different (my guess is that it has something to do with pheromones, but I don't actually know).

Of course, I can't speak for your situation. Maybe you're actually bi and just realizing it now, maybe you're not. Either way, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just pursue whoever you're attracted to regardless of gender, and remember that sexual preference is only a description of who you find attractive, not a rule you have to follow. I'd also like to say that I think >>3272 is horribly over-analyzing this situation.

>>3272
Don't listen to this guy. He sounds like he has a few screws loose

>>3259
I'd say don't suppress it and go to the bottom of this (pun intended). You'll know either right before your kiss a boy and go down on eachother, or right after you climax, you'll know if you're gay or not. Why be scared of it? What's the worst that's gonna happen? Truth is truth.

>>3285
Eh, while I'm generally pro exploration i don't think that's really how it works… someone can totally be into just a few people of the same gender, or have hangups from their upbringing even if they are totally gay.

It's a variant on the mating press. The term itself doesn't really detail on whether the knees are on the ground or if the guy has his feet planted straight.

>>3283
Alright, thanks.

Once in life time. Don't recommend anyone.

Love is not a part of my body

Rules are for fools to obey

Never give up and also don't trust her, she's gonna cheat on you.

don't put unsafe objects up your butt

>>3174
There's nothing endearing about your freak antisocial behavior. Also, nobody fucking likes you because you're a self-important, manipulative piece of shit with the social skills of a mole rat. You're lucky you even have friends. They don't deserve the grief you put them through

>>3177
Thank you.
You are right about politic.
And also ignore all bad news.
About relationships, I'm in the same situation, that you described, and trying to make my gf happy, she loves me more.
sry for bad eng, im russian

Bumping the best thread

Government is stopping me from spreading the kindness pandemic because of the other pandemic

>>1590
What is the original version of this copypasta? I know I recognize it but I can't remember what stupid thing it was originally about.

I agree
But it's interesting you say it's bleak, because to me that show has always had an aura of hopefulness and serenity. But I suppose there's some melancholy in there as well.

I've never even seen this show, but I always save the art.

>>3255
>I've never even seen this show
Well why not? It's really good.