/lounge/ - sushi social

i miss seeing his eyes, and his hair, and holding his hands, and i miss his smell, and his arms, and his chest. i miss his kisses. i miss his nervous hand movements, he never seemed sure what to do with them unless he was working on something.

i guess those are what i pay attention to because those are what i remember to miss.
i miss him a lot.

>>10398
>>6177 here, I kissed a girl under the moonlight on a no-roof lifeguard tower. I wanted a delicate connection, but she kind of went ham - immediately put her tongue in my mouth. She was a freak and that was her first kiss too.
I always imagined it will taste sweet and perfect and with fireworks and my friends clapping in the background, but it was just bland and dissapointing, shocking I guess. Did your first kiss felt different, fellas?
Anyway, the cuddling, the touching and her beautiful little hands that came after were out of this world. I think about what happened in the backseat of my car three years ago very tenderly, especially that that was my last time being this close with an another person.

God, I wish it all went different.

Hair. Definitely the hair, it's the most important feature for me.

>>11457
>Did your first kiss felt different
I have never kissed a girl or held hands with one
But the former sounds weird and stressful while the latter sounds like it would make me happy.

>>9438
Voice for me

>>11457
are we doing first kiss stories?
i was on exchange in japan (yeah i know, late bloomer to have first kiss during uni exchange) living in an international dorm but with japanese students as like the student assistants/dorm managers orw whatever they're called. One of the female japanese students and I had been touchy and flirty with each other for a couple weeks. On some study-related excuse I ended up in her room right around golden hour just after sunset. We ended up play-wrestling (she wanted to show me a judo move or something) and when our faces met I just went for it. I think she was surprised for a second but we made out pretty heavily later in the evening.

it was a warm spring day and she lived up on the top floor of the dorm so she had the windows open, and with the dorm lights off and just the dying sunset glow coming in it looked like pic related.

the relationship was horrible and she ended up being a legit psycho, but that first kiss experience was pretty nice.

>>11469
woops forgot pic

>>11470
Art is often more beautiful than real life because the artist can omit the ugly parts. Damn, that might have been the smartest thing I've ever said.

Legs and thighs.

Nothing quite like a nice pair of legs and thighs in A-Tier thigh highs.

>>12073
Sometimes I wonder how women feel about (their attributes) being judged, weighed, and examined like different cuts of meat. Then I remember: pastrami is on sale for 3.49/lb.

Anyway, its eyes, face, hair, legs, ass, torso (in that order) for me.

Also, why is anything C or below even in consideration? Its A or B all night every night.

>>12076
>Sometimes I wonder how women feel about (their attributes) being judged, weighed, and examined like different cuts of meat.

it feels bad to me, even if it's a positive response. maybe if it was someone i was close with it would be more funny or endearing.

Beautiful skin

Breasts & Butts

>>12073
High socks are so freaking cute

>>12073
Oh yeah

Beards. Most people forget that beards are hair like their head, so they ignore any grooming methods beyond shaving every other week. Anytime someone has a well groomed beard it really stands out to me. I also only like beards in a really specif texture and range between thick and thin, so if I find that unicorn I take notice

>>12675
That's nice to hear as a bearded dude who tries to take care of it

In men: tall, healthy/thick hair, a nice smile/laugh, good fashion sense, kind eyes, good facial structure and overall just looks like he takes care of himself (well-groomed nails, hair and teeth are essential).

In women: literally everything, women are perfect and every physical feature is endearing.

>>6173
The face

>>6196
Oh yes
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=enuOArEfqGo

First off: Fuck you very much, Seisatsu. I liked this site: I even had it bookmarked and lurked regularly. No more.

>>7182
> General body shape (fitness)
> Anus
> Face
> Ass cheeks
> Breasts
> Vulva
If anyone is wondering why a woman's anus is my #2 consideration even over her face, only taking a back seat (pun intended) to the hambeast / misshapen uggo factor, then feel free to spend some time reading through the included images (second one in the next post). Even better, please take serious and effective action to combat rampant, anus-mutilating anorectal violence.

>>14662
Here's image #2 (because I ain't, as in most certainly am not, enabling javascript on a Seisatsu site just to post two images in a single post).

>>14663
lol i thought it was like a normal interpersonal reason for u to be mad at seisatsu. i think u need to drink some tea and get some fresh air sushi! ur letting urself get stressed out by little things

>>14664
As I've pointed out countless times before, ultimately this is not about me. See also what I wrote about logically-fallacious diversionary tactics in the included image.
> little things
The anus may be "little," but it's also one of our most important body parts despite typically being very under-valued, commonly denigrated, and often intentionally harmed — as I pointed out in the "decadence" paste at the top of TAv6.

As for the implication that these things do not matter: That also is incorrect. Again from the "decadence" paste: Erotic anorectal violence—anoreceptive activity involving a combination of rapid thrusting, considerable girth, and a prolonged duration—is both rampant and one of the greatest contributors to societal decadence today.

>>14666
im not reading that its too long and i care too little, sorry. i hope u find happiness in life :)

>>14667
> im not reading that its too long and i care too little
Yeah, that's a common problem. It also doesn't help that far too many people have no desire to think seriously about various topics I've covered.
> sorry
It's not your fault; perhaps the presentation needs some altering. Or maybe I'm simply too damn early in caring about these matters. Many people at a societal level may just be forced to think seriously about them at some point, when the consequences of not doing so become impossible to ignore or suppress.
> i hope u find happiness in life :)
Thank you, I appreciate the kind thought. However, I don't see myself finding happiness any time soon, especially when it's tied to people addressing issues I've covered thanks to my admittedly-weird and seemingly-very-unusual strongest fetish. I didn't write about an aesthetic anus fetish in one of my pastes for no reason, that's for sure.

At least I can console myself with the knowledge that yeah, these things really don't matter all that much at least in comparison to various other issues humanity as a whole is facing. We may well end up wiping ourselves off the face the planet for various reasons, due e.g. to failing to mitigate catastrophic climate change; buildup of plastic micro- and nanoparticles among other things killing off various animals, plants, and therefore our food supply; potential for global thermonuclear war; etc.

Caring so much about matters that so many others wish to ignore, suppress, or even maliciously try to make worse perhaps out of spite hurts a lot, though.

>>14663
Wow seisatsu's javascript is safe. Seisatsu is a great federal agent! To think of it, seisatsu's my favourite federal agent so far! Seisatsu is so nice to my reports and handles them very well!

>>14670
Seisatsu a qt

>>14670
The javascript matter is an insignificant triviality. The impetus for my initial comment is what Seisatsu did on another site (s)he owns in response to what I posted there along the lines of information I posted recently here.

I shall for now refrain from finishing up and posting my WIP explanation in the absence of more antagonism on Seisatsu's part, which I actually was expecting (perhaps my posts haven't been noticed yet). Somebody else could explain, but bear in mind that doing so might well derail this thread and go against this site's "comfy" atmosphere.

>>14680
What site, T or something?

>>6173

I would say most important part is the face, then her body type (should be chubby or "thick") and then third her ass.

My libido is dead.
Just talk to me.

I'm an ass man. But it's hard to look away when nice cleavage is exposed right in front of me. I also pay close attention to lips.

>>6173
This thread doesn't look like it belongs to the culture on /lounge/, maybe /hell/ would fit it better?

Im being very succint when i say toenail curvature is so top priority for me. If the toe isn't perfectly rounded or the nail starts looking obtuse or moreso a right angle that's just worse than a turn-off it's a pull the plug

>>14686
Same. Don't talk to me though, let's just cuddle.

I value face quite highly, but it feels like everybody does that

besides face, the things that really push my buttons in girls' looks are legs (thighs and ankles especially), collarbone, and hair. OP's pic is definitely my thing

I don't care much for ass or boobs to be honest

with a friend we coined the term "microfetish" to refer to "minor details but but big turn-ons". for instance I go mad when I can see a girl's Achilles tendons, all that part of the ankle, from the back :3

>>14695
I really love it when spring comes and girls start wearing pants that expos just the angles, perhaps some calf, it really turns me on for some reason.

>>14700
I dislike girls being skimpy.
I like them wearing baggy clothes instead.

>Sexual attraction wise
I love tits, especially big ones, sometimes every bigger than big ones, huge even!
Then I also like dicks, I don't really care for size though but to be honest I find dicks on the small to medium size really attractive and really yummy. they are very attractive lol
Thighs are also good, i love thighs aaaa

>Non-sexual
I love hair and eyes, its usually the first thing i notice about someone and can make me blush hard especially if its hair over one eye. Just cute all around

>>14702
Same I love baggy clothes

I think that if there's one feature that I most often notic in girls which both turns me on and has an aesthetic appeal to me, that would be the arms.
I also like legs, a lot. But legs have a bit more of a sexual appeal, arms are more "innocent" in that sense.

Isn't this kind of topic a bit screwed up to talk about?
I think anyone can be attracted to any part of anything as long as there is an emotional bond in the first place.
I used to think that this and that would be ok, but the most endearing part of someone might be their care towards you.

Por moi it's whether or not the waitress has a rabbit on her head.

But IRL a huge backpack lost-cow-snail-girl is the best of course. I was glad to see there was a world in which she didn't die. Mayoi-ghost finding her mother's home was a real tear-jerker storyline.

>>14722
I feel like a lot of people *are* socialized or predisposed to be attracted to certain things, and discussion of that isn’t inherently bad. If cute smiles make you really happy, it’s fine to talk about it. If you love how bangs look, that’s fine, too. All part of the human experience.

>>12076
But there’s a fine line, and the answer is that it feels like shit, especially when collections of physical characteristics become commodified within pop culture. For *decades*, probably centuries if you count depictions of women in, like, baroque painting and stuff lol, women’s body types themselves are what have cycled in and out of style and are what women are socialized to want to “achieve” if they want to feel pretty. In the early 2000’s, it was being super skinny with 0% fat. Then in the 2010’s, it was the BBL and curves and etc that were in vogue. Now fashion magazines are talking about how curves are out and underweight figures are back in. Girls in some East Asian countries have it even worse where plastic surgery is even more mainstream. I would absolutely hate to grow up in an environment where the way I looked when I was born was explicitly sold to me as not good enough, and I would have to live with the thought hanging over me that I should save up money to have it forcibly changed.
I think most of us are desensitized to most of these discussions, and now I don’t really feel anything when people talk about the “perfect ass” or “perfect boobs” or whatever. Unfortunate but that’s how it is.

For me, it’s when I get in a relationship with someone and truly get close with them that I start to get turned on by super specific physical characteristics. In my last relationship, her style and fashion and the way she parted her hair were the charm points for me back then. But with my current boyfriend I’m slightly obsessed with his muscles and smile lol. It all comes secondary to me to the person, so I often wonder what life is like for people that approach others and try to date them by motivation of physical characteristics alone. How do you know that you’re going to get along? It’s such a huge time and emotional investment. No hate meant just genuine curiosity.

Wide hips

I met a girl with nice eyelids. Reminds me of a plant I have.

>>14662
> First off: Fuck you very much, Seisatsu. I liked this site: I even had it bookmarked and lurked regularly. No more.
Just delete my posts already, damnit. I want to stop occasionally checking this thread, wondering.

>>14744
Oh……

Face, and face-related mannerisms. Then hair. Which is kind of odd, as I have some trouble recalling faces in general. There was this girl I used to have a crush on way back in highschool; I can't remember in much detail how exactly she used to look, but I recall quite well the specific, rather quirky way she used to blink while explaining something at times.

I'd like to think I don't mind physical appearance that much… It'd be hypocritical when I have a hard time being happy with myself. That said I like long and straight hair, being facially expressive and being really thin..

I realized I have a strong affinity for girls with large, sanpaku eyes recently.
I also find fluffy hair very charming.