/hell/ - internet death cult

Well, here's just my thoughts. Take this with a grain of salt, since obviously, I don't know you. But it seems like you're a man who wants to be in a hetero relationship, but you're a sub. I'm not a sub, but I can empathize with how you feel. Life is really stressful, so I think there's a little part of all of us who wants to be taken care of.

I think men are expected to hold a lot of society's weight without much reward. So there's a natural fantasy of staying at home with someone who loves you and takes care of you. Additionally, the feeling of loneliness that many people experience encourages the fetishization of fetishization. I.E. it feels good when someone obsesses over you.

Idk. I'm not an expert in gender theory or psychology. But that's what I see in this post. I hope for one of two things for you:

1) You find the dominant woman you long for
2) You find satisfaction in whatever life gives you.

No woman will respect a submissive man, and without respect there is no love.

>>4668
I don't think that there's too much to think about that itself, sushi! I'm honestly more curious about why you associate higher income with dominance than the fact that you want a breadwinner wife. In fact, higher income is the only thing that you associate with dominance in your post weirdly enough. Are you sure that you are actually looking for a woman who wears the pants in the relationship? You also seem to be apprehensive about going through with it for some reason, but you don't really explain why. Also, what will waiting longer or getting in better shape really do for you? It just sounds like an excuse to not really put yourself out there.
It sounds to me like you're a pretty normal person, sushi, so I wonder why you're so unconfident about this.

>>4670
You have no proof of this. There are plenty of women who are looking for non-traditional relationships and most certainly will be respectful to their partners. In fact, more women probably find it admirable that a man wants something different out of life than just what tradition dictates. I think there are better places for people like you.

>>4673
Well, this was one example. I'd also like to be dominated in the bedroom, as well as with her friends and mine. Why wait? Well, I'm in university, and I intend to move to a different country, so I was wondering if I can find that kind of woman there.
Sorry I came out indecisive, I really do want to have this relationship and marriage, and I want it to last.

>>4674
These women exist everywhere, but some societies look down upon it, which discourages these women from being open about it. So depending on the country, these women might be harder to find. Also if you don't speak the language of the country, finding any partner is going to be difficult.

>>4675
>some societies look down upon it
Harsh truth I'm afraid, but I won't let it get to me
>speak the language of the country
No worries there, other people have told me I speak their language really well :)

>>4676
Best of luck to you then! And I'm sure you know, but be prepared for a lot of time spent searching, and probably going on dates that end up going nowhere. Such is just the reality of dating. Remember that getting closer to finding a partner is never time wasted. It is simply time spent.